Family Conference on Living Room Theme (Wives' Talking Skills Training) in collaboration with Meybod Welfare

Deputy of Welfare Prevention of Yazd province said: There is no place in the relationship between winning spouses and losing in the relationship between spouses, and seeing in the opposite team causes both sides to lose.
Mohammad Ali Sadeghipour at the Family Conference on Living Room (Teaching Spouse Dialogue) added: "The most important factor in many divorces, especially emotional and psychological divorce, is the wrong choice and inappropriate marriage and not knowing how to live."
Referring to the components needed to facilitate dialogue between the spouses, he said: "What is at stake in the relationship between spouses is how we speak, based on our perceptions."
Deputy Director of Welfare Prevention of Yazd continued: How talking about wives depends on time and place, these two components can give couples the opportunity to talk.
He goes on to point out that the expression of emotion is also important in talking to a spouse: Starting a sentence with "I" is more appropriate than "you" because starting a sentence with "you" takes the offensive.
Sadeghipour described starting a sentence in a positive way as one of the standards of relationships between spouses. It should not be a command, and "it was good and it was bad" is also an admonition.
He also reminded of avoiding exhumation in life and reminiscing about past issues without resolving issues, stating: Putting the past first is reminiscent of past issues.
The deputy director of welfare prevention in Yazd province referred to ridicule as one of the mistakes of the communication, adding: "Of course, joking is not an issue unless the other party is upset.
He regarded language as an important tool for dialogue and went on to emphasize the need to educate and teach the literature of life, to humiliate, exaggerate and generalize, to draw on one's life, and to tell and judge different stories. Dialog errors reported.
The family counselor pointed out that the words we use in the conversation are also important: "We have both generalized and judged" by saying "5 minutes late" and "how much disorder we are," I don't care »to judge.
He also said: How do you speak 2 percent vocabulary, 2 percent speaking tone, and body movements such as eyes, hands, etc. that can speak the meanings of "sit" and "sit"? Due to the need for cultural and social development along with the development of the last Thursday of each month, a series of sessions entitled "Happiness is Learned" will be held by the Maybod municipality.

Register Date :2019-11-26

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